Witch Tiny House Living: Embracing Solitude and Independence
- Desirae-Haunted Traverse
- Jan 8
- 9 min read
Updated: Feb 9
Living as a witch in a tiny house means embracing a life deeply connected to nature, yet often marked by solitude and self-reliance. The experience is a blend of wonder and challenge, where the beauty of the natural world surrounds you, but the weight of independence rests squarely on your shoulders. This post explores what it truly means to live this way, from the closeness to the land and wildlife to the mental and physical demands of solo living.
Living as a Witch in a Tiny House can Bring You Closer to Nature
I have a squirrel freind that scurries down a dead oak tree. Hanging on that tree is a face of a wood nymph and the mouth is formed into a bowl where I place seeds. The size is small which means refilling is often. If I forget, this sassy squirrel reminds me by chittering rather loudly just feet from my window and desk. The desk where I sit writing this blog, looking out my sliding door at this chittering, demanding squirrel. It is a moment of many that provide me gratitude for taking breath and thriving on my Ghost Farm.
One of the most striking parts of living as a witch in a tiny house is the constant presence of nature. The trees sway just outside your window, squirrels dart along branches, deer quietly pass through my forest to my meadow just beyond my pines and sometimes even a momma bear with her cubs in tow play with whatever items I have left about. The sky stretches wide and open, offering breathtaking sunrises, star-filled nights, moon rises that take my breath away and the ever-changing weather.
This closeness to the land is more than just scenery. It shapes daily life and spiritual practice. Gathering herbs, observing animal behavior, and feeling the earth beneath your feet become part of your routine. The natural world offers endless inspiration and a sense of belonging that is hard to find in busier places. I can hear those places in the distance too.
In the distance beyond my forrest to the north is an airport that keeps the planes buzzing my farm. Two main roads have commuters traversing to and from their work and the rumble of their tires can be heard after the leaves drop in the fall. Occassionally I'll heara saw or a whack of an ax. Maybe some forrestry work in the state-owned forest. A tractor plowing in a nearby farm offers some semblance that life exists off of my farm.
Feeling Isolated at Times
Despite the beauty, living alone in a tiny house can feel isolating. Without neighbors or nearby friends, motivation and inspiration from others can be scarce. When you’re used to sharing ideas, laughter, or even simple daily interactions, the silence can weigh heavily.
In my case, the isolation came with me as I removed myself more from my large family to pursue a more healthier lifestyle. Where the disagreements of a family member that assaulted me eventually created a canyon that was beyond merging again. They choose him for Christmas and Holiday gatherings. And I chose not to. It's a hard boundary to set. Loving a family that loves peace more than doing what is right for a person that was wronged.
So here I am on my farm. Alone. With a family that is only miles away but feel as if they live on Pluto or maybe I am the one that feels like she lives on Pluto. This isolation on top of the isolation of living alone....well that is a challenge for sure.
Finding the drive to keep going often means turning inward. You learn to cultivate your own inspiration through books, rituals, or creative projects. This self-motivation is essential but can be exhausting. There are days when the lack of external encouragement makes even small tasks feel daunting.
So put support in place. Find your tribe online or in local meet-ups. Learn to relish in the silence of being alone. Learn to enjoy your company. It means taking a hard look at all of those thoughts we don't want to face so we may slide into social media or a favorite TV show or movie. Counseling and the help of a trained professional can help you come to enjoy your own being, thoughts, and company.
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The Need to Be Physically Able
Living solo in a tiny house demands physical strength and stamina. Without someone nearby to help lift heavy objects or share the workload, every project falls on your shoulders. Moving firewood, fixing the roof, or carrying water requires planning and effort.
Solo projects take longer because you do everything yourself. There is no quick backup or partner to brainstorm solutions with. This means problem-solving becomes a solitary process, relying on your own knowledge and creativity. While this can be empowering, it also means every challenge feels bigger.
Second guessing becomes second nature to some. And I myself and had to say, "it's good enough, move on or do something else." It takes a lot of energy to be the only one problem solving, thinking of the solution, how to implement it and then physical make it so.
And if you are overweight or have a disease like I do (Hashimotos and Hypothyroidism) well then doing any task just got 10x harder. So the lesson is, you have to be able to physically rise to the challenge or have helpers that can come help you. So create that plan of how you will get things done and then implement it.
On a side note, the unspoken topic then becomes, living solo becomes more expensive.
The Unspoken Expenses
If you live alone, then you make dinner for one. Maybe you need a loaf of bread but you won't be able to eat that whole loaf so unless you freeze it then you are eating every meal designed around that loaf until it is gone if you don't want to waste money. I do not like frozen bread and my culinary skills are limited so there is food waste in my life I continue to try to solve.
If you live alone, you have to pay people to come help you more. Being self sufficient doesn't mean doing everything alone but friends can only be asked to help so much and no more before the social battery is used up. So, If the flu hits and a snowstorm, I have to pay for someone to plow. When the greenhouse plastic needs to be replaced this spring, I will have to pay someone to come out and help.
And so, living alone means that help is often hired or bartered and expenses are all on you. I still have to heat a home for one person and pay for that heat. But that cost can be split when you live with others. To give you an idea, my cost of living went from $600 rent with my family to $1500 living on my own. My cellphone costs twice as much because no family plan. I pay for all of the heat. I pay for tiny mortgage. I pay for all of the electricity. Just. Me.
The cost of living alone just isn't financial...
The Mental Burden of Independence
Every decision in this lifestyle is yours alone. This means every failure and every success belongs to you. When something goes wrong, there is no one else to share the blame. When something goes right, the accomplishment often goes unnoticed unless you share it.
Many who live this way avoid bragging or overwhelming others with the details of their life. This can lead to a sense of invisibility, where the hard work and victories remain private. The mental burden of carrying all responsibility can be heavy, especially when combined with the isolation and physical demands.
So, let me say thank you for letting me unburden myself and to brag a bit too!
If you want to make sure you can sustain this lifestyle, one way or another you are going to need to learn how to handle the mental load of every decision you make.
I tried to get others to help me design my tiny house. What you think about this here I would ask? Or using wood instead of a diesel heater? The response was always the same. "It's your house. Do what you want." So I either have to get new family and friends or that's just the way people will respond to requests for help in planning a lifestyle like this. What do you think? Please leave a comment.
Practical Tips for Managing Solitude and Independence
Create a routine that includes time for self-care and reflection to maintain mental health. Here is my typical day:
I wake up and greet the sun. Toes on the ground if I can bare the cold.
Next, its something warm like tea in the stomach.
Followed by some sort of workout or yoga session.
A mediation or journaling time scheduled for reflection.
I look over my to-do list and get to work.
Nourishment and maybe a nap in the day too
And to end my night, my tours or an evening of reading, a good tv show, or more digital type work.
I would love to tell you that the screens are off way before bed but I am trying to get away from screen time in the evenings to help with my sleep.
Build a support network online or in nearby communities to share ideas and receive encouragement. I joined a few local social support groups and attend events like bowling, hikes, or pizza parties.
Plan projects carefully to avoid injury and reduce frustration when working alone. One of things I think of often is, "Can I move this? Can I lift this? Can I do this without help?"
Celebrate small wins privately or share them with trusted friends to acknowledge your efforts. I journal dump too and I have stickers that I hand out to myself that I then get to put in my journal.
Use nature as a source of inspiration and grounding during difficult times. When I came to a turning point about how my family dynamics were never going to be the same, I layed under Gertrude. My grandmother Maple Tree located on the edge of my haunted forrest. I just talked to her and told her of my problems while her fall leaves drifted down around me. To some this may sound silly, but I challenged you to just try it when no one is around. The trees listen. They hear you. They will speak to you-maybe not so much in words but the energy they create.
Make thoughtful Purchases that Help you Maintain your Independence.
My Shopping List for Helpful Tools for Solo Living on my Farm
Heavy Duty Trolly (trust me, the wheels need to be able to handle the weight)
Ratchet Sets (to attach items to trolly, trailer, and more)
Car Jack (to lift up heavy items too not just vehicles)
Concluding our Exploration of Solo Independence
Living as a witch in a tiny house is a unique path that offers deep connection to the earth and a powerful sense of independence. It is not without its challenges, especially the isolation and the physical and mental demands of solo living. Yet, for those who choose this way, the rewards of solitude, self-reliance, and closeness to nature create a life rich with meaning and personal growth.
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